Today, there is far more love lost, than love nurtured and expanded. Marriage is a sacrament of God that is carried out by mankind. It is the basis of the family. And yet, over half of the marriages fail in today's society of self and selfishness.
Compounding this problem is the constant allure of the "new and different" sexual experience. Temptation is as prevalent as the air that we breathe. Of course, the Devil never sleeps.
What to do? Rather than hire an expensive psychiatrist and bemoan a dysfunctional childhood; there is no such time to be wasted. Look at the utter mess our world is in. The entire world is comprised of "sin cities." The "norm" is SIN - premarital sex abounds. Unwanted pregnancies follow and then, abortions flourish. A very small proportion of abortions may be valid (as the either/or saving the life of the child or the Mother); but the majority are breaking God's commandment, "Thou shalt not kill." Only God creates life and has the right to destroy life. We do not.
Divorce is a painful passage. Let us pray that we can be good Christians and honor the law of matrimony - one man and one woman, until death do us part. Hallelujah!